Dear Annie: university student struggles in selecting between two relationships

Dear Annie: university student struggles in selecting between two relationships

Annie Lane writes the Dear Annie advice line.

Dear Annie: I’m a senior at college. I’m living with my boyfriend this semester, so we’re in identical “family unit” and they are in a position to be around one another without masks and social distancing.

I’ve been seeing my boyfriend — let’s call him Raul — for around an and a half now year. We’re getting along rather well, and I can definitely envision a future together. But, here is the first severe relationship I’ve held it’s place in, while the two of us are likely likely to be in completely different places after the scholastic 12 months has ended. Raul’s applying to grad schools in European countries, and I’m trying to work with a nonprofit in the usa. Neither of us would feel great about permitting one other compromise their plans or aspirations or goals.

That apart, while I happened to be home in Vermont throughout the start of the pandemic, i eventually got to fork out a lot of the time with youth closest friend — let’s phone him Vermont Boy — whom simply split up together with gf of 3 years. Read More